Anger is very difficult for me to express. I have a tremendous amount of anger but I like to save it for my loved ones.

Anger is very difficult for me to express. I have a tremendous amount of anger but I like to save it ... for my loved ones.

Scores of studies have shown that venting doesn't soothe anger; it fuels it.

Because conflict-avoidant Emily would never “bite” or even hiss unless Greg had done something truly horrible, on some level she processes his bite to mean that she’s terribly guilty—of something, anything, who knows what?

... He was not for that moment a human being, but a frenzied creature possessed by rage, turned into an animal. All that could be seen in him was the urge to hurt, and it was, as it always will be, the most dreadful sight in the world.

My timing in life has been extraordinary. I've ridden the crest of the wave of the women's movement.