Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

There is a fundamental difference between men and women - women need romance, men need intrigue.

That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.

You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face

The nice girl thinks she's giving up something to get something better in return. She gives up control over her own life. When the time comes for her to get what she expected, she winds up disappointed. In addition to being empty-handed, she's depleted.

Once you start laughing, you start healing.