Change the direction of that ripple with a smile.

It is extremely painful to have spent my life asking 'how can I help you?' while others continually say 'I wish I could help you'.

Have a ripple effect

Situations seem to happen to people, but in reality, they unfold from deeper karmic causes. The universe unfolds to itself, bringing to bear any cause that needs to be included. Don’t take this process personally. The working out of cause and effect is eternal. You are part of this rising and falling that never ends, and only by riding the wave can you ensure that the waves don’t drown you. The ego takes everything personally, leaving no room for higher guidance or purpose. If you can, realize that a cosmic plan is unfolding and appreciate the incredibly woven tapestry for what it is, a design of unparalleled marvel.

I just love it when people say, "Let it go", "Get over it" and, "Forgive". I always wonder what has happened or NOT happened in their lives for them to able to tell someone else to do that with such casualness.

This is not a ripple effect. This is a tsunami.