Duende I can't remember her name. It's not as though I've been in bed with that many women. The truth is I can't even remember her face. I kind of know how strong her thighs were, and her beauty. But what I won't forget is the way she tore open the barbecued chicken with her hands, and wiped the grease on her breasts.
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Related Ô, the wine of a woman from heaven is sent, more perfect than all that a man can in... ROMAN PAYNE Tonight I Can Write Tonight I can write the saddest lines. Write, for e... PABLO NERUDA Lovecraft says he knows about tentacles but that motherfucker never bedded a girl from We... DAVE MATTHES Your daughter is ugly. She knows loss intimately, carries whole cities in her belly. ... WARSAN SHIRE Tonight I can write the saddest lines. Write, for example,'The night is shattered an... PABLO NERUDA I can write the saddest poem of all tonight. Write, for instance: "The night is full of ... PABLO NERUDA What does Éloa mean?” He narrowed his gaze, answered her literally. “It’s the name... SARAH MACLEAN Edie Sedgwick (1943-1971) I don't know how she did it. Fire She was shaking all over... PATTI SMITH MY MOTHER GETS DRESSED It is impossible for my mother to do even the simplest... DAPHNE GOTTLIEB There is a girl. I named her love. She has a father. His name is desire. Her mo... DEBASISH MRIDHA STAINS With red clay between my toes, and the sun setting over my head, the ghost of ... BRENDA SUTTON ROSE My Love wakes in a puddle of sunlight. Her hands asleep beside her. Her hair draped on the... ROMAN PAYNE For the Wife Beater's Wife With blue irises her face is blossomed. Blue Circling to ... BRUCE WEIGL Love Sorrow Love sorrow. She is yours now, and you must take care of what has... MARY OLIVER Sick of body, unable to rise up, vehemently intoxicated without wine . . . And it is as t... AL-MUTANABBī It’s not her shape, her face, or her hair that makes her beautiful. Neither is it t... PIERRE ALEX JEANTY Not only did I love her, but I could tell the universe loved her, too. More... CHRISTOPHER POINDEXTER Sweet Grace amazes me The way that she can see Beyond the man I am To the man that I ... JASON GRAY somebody/ anybody sing a black girl's song bring her out to know herself to know... NTOZAKE SHANGE My father, father!' - she might pray to the winds; no innocence moves her judges mad for war. <... AESCHYLUS She came towards me with a juicy gash between her legs that smelled like my best friend's sister" DAVE MATTHES Survive ... Some women survive by creating walls, big walls guarding their heart... IJEOMA UMEBINYUO My Love wakes in a puddle of sunlight. Her hands asleep beside her. Her hair draped on the... ROMAN PAYNE Voodoo Girl Her skin is white cloth, and she's all sewn apart and she has many colore... TIM BURTON When she comes She pulls you close She breathes in short bursts Her eyes close H... HENRY ROLLINS You see her and ascend into love. You become enchanted, a found madman. In yo... KAMAND KOJOURI She grew tired of shielding her body, For societal expectation and propriety, Double stand... JACQUELINE SIMON GUNN A bird who hurt her wing, now forgotten how to fly. A song she used to sing, bu... LANG LEAV She would not break. And someday… someday,even if it took her until her last breath, sh... SARAH J. MAAS There's something about her. It's not her smile or grace, It's not her beauty or race, J.A. ANUM People are not an interruption of our business. People are our business. A man's worst difficulties begin when he is able to do as he likes. It is hard to look up to a leader who keeps his ear to the ground. The most wasted day of all is that in which we have not laughed. The more intelligent a man is, the more originality he discovers in men. Ordinary people see no diff... The intelligence is proved not by ease of learning, but by understanding what we learn. Communication is something so simple and difficult that we can never put it in simple words. Like threads of silver seen through crystal beads Let love through good deeds show. How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it. In everyone's heart stirs a great homesickness. That is the supreme value of history. The study of it is the best guarantee against repeating it. Our wisdom comes usually from our experience, and our experience comes largely from our experience. One thing about the school of experience is that it will repeat the lesson if you flunk the first ti... To reprove small faults within due vehemence, is as absurd as if a man should take a great hammer to... Faith is like electricity. You can't see it, but you can see the light. Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it by the handle of anxiety, or by the handle of... Some families can trace their ancestors back three hundred years, but can't tell you where their chi... A recent survey was said to prove that the people we Americans most admire are our politicians and d... If a man defrauds you one time, he is a rascal; if he does it twice, you are a fool. Flattery looks like friendship, just like a wolf looks like a dog. Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it. Courage is always greatest when blended with meekness; intellectual ability is most admired when it ... Freedom also includes the right to mismanage your own affairs. Let your friends be the friends of your deliberate choice. The man who has strong opinions and always says what he thinks is courageous - and friendless. Friendship is love with understanding. So few people think. When we find one who really does, we call him a genius Your life can't go according to plan if you have no plan. Practicing the Golden Rule is not a sacrifice; it is an investment. Conversation is an exercise of the mind; gossip is merely an exercise of the tongue. An expert gossiper knows how much to leave out of a conversation To live so that you would not be ashamed to sell the family parrot to the town gossip, is to have li... Gossip is sometimes referred to as halitosis of the mind If you would attain greatness, think no little thoughts. We are born brave, trusting and greedy, and most of us remain greedy. People are changed, not by coercion or intimidation, but by example. Children are natural mimics; they act like their parents in spite of every effort to teach them good... The guilty catch themselves. Good habits are formed; bad habits we fall into. If happiness could be brought, few of us could pay the price. Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have. Happiness is in the heart, not in the circumstances. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. Hatred is a boomerang which is sure to hit you harder than the one at whom you throw it. Hate pollutes the mind. If we miraculously became the people we hate, how lovable we would find ourselves. To feel "fit as a fiddle" you must tone down your middle. Our health always seems much more valuable after we lose it. A patient going to a doctor for his first visit was asked, "And whom did you consult before coming t... "Oh," replied his patient, with no malice aforethought, "he told me to come and see you." It is impossible to make wisdom hereditary. Honesty is a question of right or wrong, not a matter of policy. It is a pleasure to give advice, humiliating to need it, normal to ignore it. It is almost impossible to smile on the outside without feeling better on the inside. Too many people confine their exercise to jumping to conclusions, running up bills, stretching the t... Imagination was given man to compensate for what he is not, and a sense of humor to console him for ... Humor - the perfect relationship of the parts to the whole. Our five senses are incomplete without the sixth - a sense of humor. "What made the deepest impression upon you?" inquired a friend one day of Lincoln, "when you stood i... It isn't easy for an idea to squeeze itself into a head filled with prejudice. Too many people run out of ideas long before they run out of words. Imagination is the pontoon bridge making way for the timid feet of reason. Practical observation commonly consists of collecting a few facts and loading them with guesses. Friendship is a living thing that lasts only as long as it is nourished with kindness, empathy and u... Having supplied them with names, omnipotence, justice, knowledge, Providence, - what are they? A good laugh is sunshine in a house. When you laugh, be sure to laugh at what people do and not at what people are. One look around us ought to show that all our arbitrary measures and bounds have been clamped on us ... No punishment of the unrighteous has ever been too severe in the eyes of the righteous. Why keep on enacting laws when we already have more than we can break.
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Fame is a lot of fun, but it's not interesting. I loved being noticed and praised, even the banq... JACK GILBERT I had lived all of my youthful dreams, but I couldn't think of many adult ones. I finally realiz... JACK GILBERT I'm vain enough to think that I've made a successful life. I've had everything I've ... JACK GILBERT You can't work in a steel mill and think small. Giant converters hundreds of feet high. Every ni... JACK GILBERT We must risk delight. We can do without pleasure, but not delight. Not enjoyment. We must have<... JACK GILBERT Suddenly this defeat. This rain. The blues gone gray And the browns gone gray An... JACK GILBERT How astonishing it is that language can almost mean, and frightening that it does not quite. JACK GILBERT Everyone forgets Icarus also flew. JACK GILBERT We think the fire eats the wood. We are wrong. The wood reaches out to the flame. The fire licks at ... JACK GILBERT I dream of lost vocabularies that might express some of what we no longer can. 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