Every one has a defects, so we accept in our life the one who "can" be identified with his advantages not the defects.

life is a short period, enjoy it or die quickly.

when we discover that we have the ability to advice the others we have to have also the ability to regret our mistakes....... don't advice others while you have along way to regret the mistakes you did.

Think-ability and Animality are the mix to humanity, Control your Animality and use your Think-ability.

It was in the defects that they [servants] invariably acquired that I learned of my own natural, invariable defects, and their character presented me with a sort of negative proof of my own.

Reckless. Insatiable. Deceptive. Clingy. Vain. Dismissive. Trivial. Violent. Tactless. Controlling. Impractical. Fearful. Think of one example in your past where you exhibited each of these traits. Whatever memory comes to your mind will usually provide you with a clear illustration. Know that you have the capacity to exhibit all defects.