Some victims do need to "blame" themselves and take responsibility.

Victimization is often a dynamic. In many cases the victim is also a participant in their own victimization.

Real humility is graceful power, not a mandate to be victimized and abused.

When you blame others you are effectively proclaiming that you are only response to stimuli.

Even when something is not your fault, toxic blame has no place in your life. Focus on your own empowerment and healing.

You are responsible for doing what good you can with what you have, and any good is better than none.