When you blame others you are effectively proclaiming that you are only response to stimuli.

Some victims do need to "blame" themselves and take responsibility.

Even when something is not your fault, toxic blame has no place in your life. Focus on your own empowerment and healing.

As your consciousness, refinement and pureness of heart expands you will become less judgmental, less corrective, less reactive, less black-and-white, less critical, less apt to blame and less tormented by others and their faults and views.

[But the effectiveness of the response to Katrina appears to diminish the higher you move up the chain of command. By Sept. 7, Lott concluded that FEMA and its Mississippi arm were overwhelmed and understaffed, and he went straight to circumvention mode.] We're just going around them, ... We talk to people on the ground, and they tell us what they need.

When is the last time your computer restarted you? Don't forget about nature. Recreation means to re-create yourself.