The game is very addictive. You can't overwork your wife or help or they might quit. You have to have a good balance.

Act like Lassie and go find help.

If you do more than your share you'd better want to: otherwise, you're paying yourself in a currency recognized nowhere else.

Mental stories can literally spoil a human life. It took me a long time to become aware of my mental commentary, such as: “Everything always goes wrong”, “I won’t be accepted”, “I’m a failure” or “What’s the point?” Those fears were deep-rooted and triggered many upsetting addictive patterns of behaviour

I like it here, but negotiations are a long way off. If I take care of my game and help my team win, everything else will take care of itself.

The earlier you ask, the earlier you can enlist them for their help.