We must keep both our femininity and our strength.

We women must listen to our inner voice. It is easier for women to do this as they are not afraid to say what they feel.

Women must not shout back when their husbands come home and shout at them for any reason.

We've got our own daylight to get bad thoughts away, and we talk with that light - our star in our heart. We take away what's unimportant.

Laughter drives shouting away.

Tell your husbands any bad news when everything is calm, not just as they come through the door.