We've always had obstacles to overcome. But we're a family and we stick together.

The family that prays together, stays together.

We also send cards to acknowledge illnesses, births and deaths in the family. One officer who was out on leave for a while told me how much it meant to him that he got a card from us and that we were thinking of him during that time.

It's still an investigation so we can identify him, give it some closure and inform possible family members so he can receive a proper burial.

I'd call it family of the year. Everyone contributes.

Families with babies and families without babies are sorry for each other.