It's still an investigation so we can identify him, give it some closure and inform possible family members so he can receive a proper burial.

The family that prays together, stays together.

We also send cards to acknowledge illnesses, births and deaths in the family. One officer who was out on leave for a while told me how much it meant to him that he got a card from us and that we were thinking of him during that time.

I'd call it family of the year. Everyone contributes.

We've always had obstacles to overcome. But we're a family and we stick together.

We deliberately didn't want it to be just wives. We're open to all family members and significant others. We have the mother and step-father of a deputy on our board and we have a husband who's been very active.