When we depress, we believe we are the victims of a feeling over which we have no control.

We almost always have choices, and the better the choice, the more we will be in control of our lives.

Caring for but never trying to own may be a further way to define friendship.

Using no control and using humor will build a relationship and make a dent to where the client puts the counselor in their quality world and then begins to relate and seek out the counselor. Effective therapy begins with the acceptance of the therapist into the client's quality world.

I believe in creative control. No matter what anyone makes, they should have control over it.

For me concrete poetry was a particular way of using language which came out of a particular feeling, and I don't have control over whether this feeling is in me or not.