you can tell a true war story if it embarrasses you. If you don't care for obscenity, you don't care for the truth; if you don't care for the truth, watch how you vote. Send guys to war, they come home talking dirty.
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Related People dont care what you know until they know what you care JOHN C. MAXWELL Long-time viewing of Internet violence tend to change a person's temperament, making the person pron... YOU QUANXI If positive and healthy materials are absent, negative materials are sure to be dominant in the cybe... YOU QUANXI In a robust global business environment, our business units operated well in the first quarter. More... HARRY YOU The Board of Directors and I are pleased to recognize Peter's outstanding contribution to the succes... HARRY YOU We are pleased to close the books on 2004 following the painstaking review of almost five years of f... HARRY YOU Dont GiVe UP iF U StIll WaNna TrY* DonT WIpE YOUR TeARS IF YOU StiLL WANT TO Cry DON'T SET... TRENT REZNOR If you dont stand for something you fall for everything. MALCOLM X people dont know you till they meet you. dont smile if you dont want to, dont be a false person, don... CAROLINA JANETTE GOMEZ GONZALEZ Youll never get mixed up if you simply tell the truth. Then you dont have to remember what you have ... SAM RAYBURN You can say that you dont care what anyone thinks about you, but in the end, its all that really mat... TIFFANY GARLAND If you dont take care of things in life people will take care of things for you. But probably not in... KRISTOPHER LARSEN Dont try to go too fast. Learn your job. Dont ever talk until you know what youre talking about. If ... SAM RAYBURN I dont care how much a man talks, if he only says it in a few words. JOSH BILLINGS But if you can't tell the truth to the people you care about the most, eventually you stop being abl... CASSANDRA CLARE True love is you. You cant love someone else if you dont love yourself.. Get to know yourself. NERISSA IRVING People dont see you for what you think, they see you for what you say SIMPLETON If you dont get what you want,you wont want what you get. KENNETH ELLIOTT HUDSON "Dont forget me" says love.
"Forget me if you have to" says true love............ PRABHA yepp it's ok, i know you dont care at all, but i still have to make you smile, cause i love seeing y... ABHIYANDA B. If you're a prosecutor, and you believe the defendant is guilty, you only talk about ultimate tr... ALAN DERSHOWITZ If you dont understand the MOTIVE, don't judge the means! STEPHEN MAGNUS O yes youwl want to think on that you dont want your mouf to walk you where your feet dont want to g... RUSSELL HOBAN I just dont know how...to think less. If you know how, then teach me... AISHAH MADADIY Why did Jesus die for you? How do you sin? You dont? OK yours is lying. JODEL AREVALO You dont know your wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day. MICHAEL PARENTI If you dont have any shadows you're not in the light LADY GAGA Eat cheese and do a u-turn but if you dont like cheese dont eat cheese and do a u-turn KATIE BAVISTER Dont be afraid to stand for what you believe
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RAJA I say tell me the truth, but you don´t dare. I tell you how I feel but you don´t care. You say lov... FIONA APPLE I say tell me the truth, but you don´t dare. I tell you how I feel but you don´t care. You say lov... FIONA APPLE Most people don't care if you're telling them the truth or if you're telling them a lie,... TOM WAITS If you dont like me, Walk away , Matter of fact Run Away VIRGINIA EUWER WOLFF If we all took a minute to reflect upon the wrong we do we would be quite surprised or shocked.Inste... GARY F EVANS... dont wait for next minute, next hour, next day, next week, next year, just do it if you want to do i... ANON QUOTER People think that they are untouchable, but you will probably find that there lives are built around... GARY F EVANS... If you can control a mans thinking, you dont have to worry about his actions. If you can determine w... CARTER WOODSON How can someone ask you to show your full potential when their actions bring out the worst in you.Fo... 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WILLIAM JAMES What you have to decide... is how you want your life to be. If your forever was ending tomorrow, wou... SARAH DESSEN I say tell me the truth, but you don«t dare. I tell you how I feel but you donÃ�... FIONA APPLE If you care about injustice, and if you care about freedom, and you care about human rights, then yo... LARA LOGAN If you don't show care and love for your children and leave the mothers to take care of all thei... YAHYA JAMMEH Society can only hurt if you care for its opinion JUDE MORGAN Failure is not the final fall. LAILAH GIFTY AKITA When you try to talk about yourself, you dont know who you are, or what your like, or what your like... CAROL CHANNING If you have no money, men won't care for you, women won't love you; won't, that is, care for you or ... GEORGE ORWELL It's hard to be scared if you don't feel for a character, because you don't care if they... ELISHA CUTHBERT If you tell the truth about how you're feeling, it becomes funny. LARRY DAVID A war is justified if you're willing to send your son. If you're not willing to send your so... JESSE VENTURA It seems like you don't care about me anymore, you say you love me but with all of your words, you d... VICTORIA ANGULO If a woman truly loves you, you can’t always expect her to tell the truth. You see, women are more... NICHOLAS SPARKS You should be true to the person you were. Dont try to apply the person you are now to the past. TRIPP MILLICAN If you go in for argument, take care of your temper. Your logic, if you have any, will take care of ... JOSEPH FARRELL If you know me, you know that nothing embarrasses me. Anything could happen to me on live television... GIULIANA RANCIC In a day,when you dont come across any problems,then you can be sure that you are travelling in the ... JOHN F. KENNEDY The propensity to vote goes straight up with age, although if you care about an issue you tend to vo... DAN WALTERS Little drops of rain Whisper of the pain Tears of love Lost in the days gone by. ROBERT PLANT "THANK YOU" If the guy likes/loves you, he won't care if you are a good kisser or not. He should like you f... MEG CABOT If you take care of your thoughts, they will take care of you. LALIT BHOJWANI Don't prepare for a war to stop a war. If you are in war and you say you have already prepared for i... EPHDAN Okay, seriously, I dont know if this is true or not, but I heard people who use profanity are trying... SIMONE ELKELES Objective truth is difficult to come by, and even if you have it, what you can pass on to the next p... DANIEL ABRAHAM You cant find outside what you dont have inside. CARL HAMMERSCHLAG Anything that you dont overcome will eventualy overtake you. MICHAEL STRONG This country has been strip-mined by rich and powerful interests. If you dont like what they're doin... RALPH NADER dont let the old break you; let the love make you BERTRAND RUSSELL Why do you pretend to care when you can care for real? MITTA XININDLU If you find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded. MAYA ANGELOU girl/boy..!! you do it again and again even after saying so many times..!! no no..!! dats it..!! its... FAHEEM IQBAL And kid Congress and the Senate, dont scold em. They are just children thats never grown up. They do... WILL ROGERS Grey, just breathe. I love you. Unless you can tell me, without lying, that you dont love me back, ... JASINDA WILDER You do not boo an Olympic Gold Medalist. I'm the best in the world. I came here for you. You dont' b... KURT ANGLE You are a delicate as a flower, One little thing can break you, so dont let anything come in the way... DANIELLE D If there is no criticism, you become lazy. But it should be constructive, and it should be the truth... A. R. RAHMAN Manny:'Thats wat you do in a herd, you look out for each other.' Sid:'I dont know about you guy... ICE AGE If something is not covered by insurance, or if you're uninsured or underinsured, it's reasonable to... DR. EDWARD LANGSTON do tou think i would speak for you? i dont even know your language JUDD NELSON I don't care if you like me, and i don't care either if you do. HAIFA SANAD If truth is the first victim of war, then read on - I've got some great lies for you this month. ALAN GORRIE My job is to put words together and tell a story. If that doesn't work for you, it's not a w... ALAN ZWEIBEL If you aren't please tell me how you are going to not have a war. SAMANTHA SMITH
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DARREN O'DONNELL All the possibilities of your human destiny are asleep in your soul. You are here to realize and hon... JOHN O'DONOHUE If you are different from the rest of the flock, they bite you VINCENT O'SULLIVAN We do not need to grieve for the dead. Why should we grieve for them? They are now in a place where ... JOHN O'DONOHUE To love without ownership, to love with total trust and faith in that very love, to love with the sa... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR My feeling on the subject of sex with a man is - don't give it up unless you're willing to give him ... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR Life is surreal. When you step back and really take a look at it, the irony is absolute. JULIEANNE O'CONNOR Ladies, you have a ton of power if you just understand the fundamental differences between men and w... JULIEANNE O'CONNOR When it was dark, you always carried the sun in your hand for me. SEáN O'CASEY You cannot borrow half of who you are from someone else, yet people try to do it all of the time, th... JENNIFER O'NEILL For Equilibrium, a Blessing: Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore, May the relief ... JOHN O'DONOHUE Sometimes, when people speak, I cease listening to their words and zoom in instead on the cadence, a... ROSIE O'DONNELL It was a great mistake, my being born a man, I would have been much more successful as a seagull or ... EUGENE O'NEILL It could be a meeting on the street, or a party or a lecture, or just a simple, banal introduction, ... JOHN O'DONOHUE The world rests in the night. Trees, mountains, fields, and faces are released from the prison of sh... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your noble friend will not accept pretension but will gently and very firmly confront you with your ... JOHN O'DONOHUE The ego is the false self-born out of fear and defensiveness. JOHN O'DONOHUE If you try to view yourself through the lenses that others offer you, all you will see are distortio... JOHN O'DONOHUE Love allows understanding to dawn, and understanding is precious. Where you are understood, you are ... JOHN O'DONOHUE We do not need to go out and find love; rather, we need to be still and let love discover us. JOHN O'DONOHUE Beauty is the illumination of your soul. JOHN O'DONOHUE Real friendship or love is not manufactured or achieved by an act of will or intention. Friendship i... JOHN O'DONOHUE When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you.... JOHN O'DONOHUE No one else has access to the world you carry around within yourself; you are its custodian and entr... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your beloved and your friends were once strangers. Somehow at a particular time, they came from the ... JOHN O'DONOHUE Your soul knows the geography of your destiny. Your soul alone has the map of your future, therefore... JOHN O'DONOHUE If you send out goodness from yourself, or if you share that which is happy or good within you, it w... JOHN O'DONOHUE Every friendship travels at sometime through the black valley of despair. This tests every aspect of... JOHN O'DONOHUE All you can ever achieve is a sense of your soul. You gain little glimpses of its light, colors, and... JOHN O'DONOHUE You are as young as you feel. If you begin to feel the warmth of your soul, there will be a youthful... JOHN O'DONOHUE Behind your image, below your words, above your thoughts, the silence of another world waits. JOHN O'DONOHUE