Your connections might get you in the door, but it won't keep you there. And if you haven't prepared, you'll suck.

There is no question that knowing someone in the business will get you in the door. But it is your skill that will keep you in the room.

Be where the acting is. I live in Houston. Dallas is 4 1/2 hours away. I let them know there's no difference.

Of course the shrieking desire for the scoop can get really strong, but so is the desire to safeguard connections and keep everyone happy.

The thing you have to be prepared for is that other people don't always dream your dream.

Don't ever slam a door, you might want to go back.