Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself.

I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, 'No, I won't do it, I won't behave his way anymore. I'm lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving,' and then you do it.

I find it humorous that we are given a life, not by choice, but for the common misconception that we grow up thinking we have one at all

We almost always have choices, and the better the choice, the more we will be in control of our lives.

It's not like he lost control, ... He pretty much had a choice to make.

Life is a sum of all your choices.