A cocktail done right can really show your guests that you care.

When you start a show, the plans are not set in stone. They're really mutable, cocktail napkin sketches.

Hospitality exists when you believe that the other person is on your side.

Hospitality is almost impossible to teach. It's all about hiring the right people.

I don't really care about awards.

Be aware of textural elements throughout a party, like silverware, stemware, and linens. But the biggest element is metaphorical: it's your own touch. How are you making people feel?