Know that everything is in perfect order whether you understand it or not.

Know that everything is in perfect order whether you understand it or not.

There's a victory in letting go of your expectations.

--I truly and deeply wanted to kill him. And I believe I could have done it, with nothing but my hands. But all of a sudden, out of nowhere, Peter had an arm around me. "Let it go, Kade," he was whispering very gently, though his arm was nearly crushing me. "Open your fists," he said, "and let go of the coals.

I would not look upon anger as something foreign to me that I have to fight...I have to deal with my anger with care, with love, with tenderness, with nonviolence.

[D]etachment means letting go and nonattachment means simply letting be. (95)