No matter what side of the argument you are on, you always find people on your side that you wish were on the other.

If you cannot mould yourself entirely as you would wish, how can you expect other people to be entirely to your liking?

Doesn't matter what you say or do; people can always find a way to call you a dick.

No matter who you are, the grass is never greener on the other side.

The grass isn't always greener on the other side!

Hospitality exists when you believe that the other person is on your side.