The formula for a happy marriage? It's the same as the one for living in California: when you find a fault, don't dwell on it

The formula for a happy marriage? It's the same as the one for living in California: when you find a fault, don't dwell on it

Those who cannot remember the past will spend a lot of time looking for their cars in mall parking lots.

Never criticize your spouse's faults; if it weren't for them, your mate might have found someone better than you

We are, all of us, utterly committed and deeply devoted to our "style", our "way", our "approach to life." We have absolutely no intention of giving it up. Not even for love. So God creates an environment where we have to. It's called marriage.

Marriage takes work, but so does living alone. One of the things you have to work at is to have enough human resources and to plan ahead... be willing to take responsibility for making the arrangements and building the bridges. People will walk across the bridge to you, but they probably won't build the bridge, and once you accept that, then you can have a very full life.